Mother's Day is almost here, and if you're already panicking about finding the "perfect" gift, relax, we've got you. Turns out what most moms really want isn't sold in any store in the Rockford area.

Not One Rockford Store Sells What She Really Wants for Mother's Day

Spoiler alert: it's not a candle. Or a necklace shaped like a heart. Or brunch at a place with a 45-minute wait. What do moms actually want on Mother's Day?

The question that started the conversation on Reddit:

Hey moms, I am legitimately asking what is something you actually want for Mother’s day, or even suggestions. There are many people, husbands/wives that can benefit from great discussion and ideas.

I don’t want to just get something cliche or a piece of jewelry - so I come here for feedback from real moms. Also, I like realistic items, so if you know an associated cost, include that as well as it can help us create the best day possible for the women than make our families so much better.

After combing through that thread for over an hour, here's a top 10 list I put together from the replies to that question above. You can't wrap it, you can't buy it, and you sure can't find the perfect Mother's Day gift in a pop-up aisle next to the glittery "#1 Mom" mugs.

What do moms actually want for Mother's Day?

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1. To Wake Up When Her Body Says SO

No alarm. No small child whispering "Mom?" from two inches away. Just... sleep. Naturally

2. Coffee She Didn't Have to Make

Imagine: a hot cup of coffee just appears. She didn't grind the beans. She didn't reheat it four times. It's a Mother's Day miracle.

3. A Meal She Didn't Touch

She didn't plan it. She didn't cook it. She didn't "just help a little." She sat down and ate it like a guest in her own home

4. Zero Decisions

"What should we do today?" is banned. She wants a day off from being the household cruise director.

5. A Long Bath (Alone)

No one knocking. No one barging in. No one asking for fruit snacks from the other side of the door.

6. A Nap

You know who naps? Queens. And she wants in

7. A Day Without Kid Logistics

You handle the lunch. You wrangle the wild one. You put the kid to bed. She'll be over here... doing absolutely nothing.

8. No Obligatory Visits

She loves your mom. And hers. But not today.

9. Her Own Screen Time

TikTok? Xbox? A show where no one sings or asks to build a castle? Bliss.

10. Someone to Just Ask Her

Don't assume. Don't guess. Just ask what she wants.

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Happy Mother's Day!

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